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2.17.2010

"Easy To Get" Just Doesn't Sound Half As Fun!

The title says it all.

Better stick with "Hard to Get" if you're going to play any game at all. It works. Even my mom (and doctors) say so. So here's what I did, I consulted the male and female perspective of the game, found out how to play it, and got some info on the benefits people experience from it.

Survey Says!

For the Gals:

Cosmopolitan: The Relationship Games You Should Play.
1) Answer half his calls/texts/emails etc. Make him beg to know why you're so busy!
2) Too much information (TMI) will scare him away. Keep him guessing...
3) Always be the one to end the date or phone call. I mean, you've got better things to do, right? RIGHT?!?
4) A little jealousy never hurt anyone. Flirt but don't talk dirt.
5) No sex. For like a day- wait no, like a month (if you can hold it for that long it will be well worth it!)

Here's the link if you want to read the article in its entirety: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/dating-advice/547479-7

For the Guys:

It was a little bit harder to find content for the guys because it's always stressed that they are the chasers and the women are the prizes to be lured in.

So every website I consulted stated the statistics, that bachelors have a much higher success rate when only pursuing a woman after 48-72 hours of exchanging numbers. Some videos remarked that it's better for the woman to make the first point of contact, but this is what the majority rule remarked. Take a look at this "Professional Bachelor":




Question to ask yourself: Does this work for me?

It's so important to ask yourself this because not everyone functions the same way. You may be dealing with a very sensitive person who would rather speak with you (and know you're interested) than wait by the phone (and not know if you're interested) but feel more satisfied when you finally meet.

Try it out, and let me know if it works.

I'm super interested to hear your feedback on whether or not you think this game works, any juicy stories you'd like to share? Comment Away!


Signing off.





1 comment:

  1. Love it girl! Easier said that done though. I'm the kind of girl that can't get enough of a guy and will call/text him as often as possible without sounding desperate. I know that it's better to play hard to get, but it's a tough thing to do.

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